It can be difficult to stay on top of household chores in this busy day and age, let alone get kids to participate.
I have found some great tips that I’d like to share with you from my copy of The Simple Things by Antonia Kidman and Sally Collings. Just 20 pages in and this book is a winner in my eyes and I’m itching to read the rest of it.
Getting kids involved in household chores
Antonia suggests the following method of dishing out chores.
- Create a list of weekly household chores
- Assign each task to an age appropriate group. For instance Beginner (pre-schoolers), Intermediate (primary-schoolers), and Advanced (teens and adults).
- Allow kids to choose chores from their age group. This one really resonates with me. I spent 5 years studying psychology and know that having a say in goal-setting increases motivation. Think of chores like goals, and choosing them increases motivation.
- The left over chores are for adults.
- Consider crossing off household chores that were completed in the previous week to ensure everyone has a turn at the less popular tasks.
Age-appropriate household chore list
Here is a list I prepared with some age appropriate chores. Just copy and paste it into a word document, edit as you see fit and hang on the inside of your pantry door.
|Help hang Laundry||Fold laundry with supervision||Sweep kitchen floor|
|Put away clutter
||Put laundry away||Take bins out for street collection|
|Fill a pet’s water and food bowls||Stack dishwasher/Empty dishwasher||Empty compost|
|Set the table with supervision
||Wipe down kitchen surfaces||Empty bins|
|Help a parent prepare food||Empty small bins||Hang washing|
|Match socks in the laundry||Put washing on||Take washing off line
|Sort dirty clothes into dark’s, whites, etc.||Sweep floors||Clean out car
|Collect the mail||Water plants||Wash car
|Straighten books or other general tidying||Put away groceries||Clean out fridge
|Dusting||Sweep patio||Cook simple meals
|Tidy living room (cushions, blankets etc.)||Make school lunches||Baking for lunches
You could also add cleaning tasks to the list, or outsource the heavy cleaning to professionals.
Rewards & Discipline
As a rule of thumb, the number of chores should be half of the child’s age. So a four-year old will have 2 chores, and a 14-year-old has 7 chores.
You may like to deal with whingeing or poorly completed jobs by allocating extra tasks the next week.
When children go the extra mile, it should be recognized with a reward such as choosing a special Saturday night dinner.
How do you divide your family chores? I’d love to hear your tips and tricks.